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Mein Bedürfnis nach Eskapismus* ist gerade auf elf gedreht. Deswegen bin ich mal wieder auf der Suche nach Lesestoff. Ich suche Liebesgeschichten mit Nonbinären Charakteren. Am liebsten historische Settings oder Fantasy. Sprache kann auch Englisch sein. Die beschriebene Menge Sex ist mir egal.

:BoostOK:

* Ja Klaus, das ist meine Art mit der Welt umzugehen. Ich lese entweder Sachbücher oder ich lese als Flucht aus der Realität. Und im Moment brauche ich letzteres um überhaupt mit allem was passiert klarzukommen. Das macht mich kein bisschen schlechter informiert aber es erhält mich handlungsfähig.

#bücher #queer #nonbinary

Edit: ich bin vierzig, Young Adult holt mich so gar nicht ab.

Die Gruppe „trans* und Ich“ trifft sich am Montag, dem 3. März um 19 Uhr im Queeren Zentrum Mannheim!

Die Gruppe bietet Hilfe und Unterstützung für Eltern, Partner*innen, Angehörige und Zugehörige von trans*, inter und nicht binären Menschen.
„trans* und Ich“ versteht sich als Ergänzung der bereits vorhandenen Angebote für trans* Menschen in der Rhein Neckar Region.

Mehr Infos: qzm-rn.de/event/selbsthilfegru

#trans#nonbinary#inter

Itchy Sweater

This column was written by me about two years ago. Here's the English version - een Nederlandse versie is hier gepubliceerd:
https://www.tijdschriftlover.nl/columns/gender_is_als_een_kriebeltrui

Imagine that you’ve worn an itchy sweater, all day and every day of your life. The sweater fits well and it’s comfortably warm, but it itches like hell. Because you’ve worn the sweater your entire life, you don’t know any better. You’ve learned to live with the constant discomfort. You’ve learned to ignore it as much as possible, to push the itch away. Everybody wears that same sweater and nobody’s complaining about it, so the itch must just be a part of it, right? Don’t complain, just carry on, like everybody else. But then you meet people who say that they’re also bothered by their itchy sweaters, and you find out that the sweaters actually don’t itch for most people, just for some. That you can also just take off the sweater if it does cause you a constant itch. Imagine that after over 40 years of constant itching, you finally work up the courage to take off that sweater. Ahhhhh, finally liberated from the eternal itch! That’s what it felt like for me when I “cast off” my masculinity. A liberation, a feeling of euphoria, a feeling of finally being myself and not having to pretend any longer to be something that I’m not.

Hi! I’m Alba. I’m 45 years old and I’m not a man, nor am I a woman: I’m non-binary. I only found out about this a few years ago. My entire life up to that point, I had played my role as a man because society clearly expected me to play that role. I looked like a man, so I should behave like a man, right? When my then 15 year old child came out to me as non-binary, I went looking for everything I could find about what it means to be non-binary, and I realized that I myself am non-binary too. The first person who I came out to as non-binary, was my child. It was the start of a joint quest into the vast and wondrous territories beyond the gender binary. My child lives with their mother in a far foreign place, but despite that physical separation, the bond between us has grown much stronger these past few years. We can share everything with each other, even our deepest desires and insecurities.

Life beyond the binary isn’t easy. Every time you fill out a form and are forced to declare whether you’re a man or a woman, every time you get a letter or an email that greets you as “mister”, that same old itchy sweater is forced back on you. The more often it happens, the more disgusting it feels: dysphoria. Time and time again, companies and organizations tell me that I really do have to choose between either “man” or “woman”. Often, they’re working on a new system that will offer more options, but for now, it is what it is. From the payroll system your employer uses, to your power company. From your internet provider to your healthcare insurance. From dating apps to supermarkets. When you least expect it, somebody runs up to you and forces that itchy sweater on you again, and again, and again.

Even the government discriminates against non-binary people, despite the constitution of the Netherlands clearly forbidding discrimination of any resident of the country based on their gender. You see, the gender “X” does legally exist, as a gender neutral alternative to “F” (female) or “M” (male), but there’s no legal framework to request your registered gender to be changed to “X”. While binary trans people should soon, with the ratification of the new “Transgender Law”, be able to just go to their town hall and request for their “M” to be changed to “F” or vice versa, non-binary people will then still be required to file a lawsuit against the state and go before a judge in order to be able to change their “M” or “F” to “X”, because the new law still doesn’t create a legal framework for requesting that “X”. This is why my passport still features that itchy sweater “M”, and every letter that I receive from the city, from the tax office or from any other governmental or official organization, gets shoved through my mailbox including that itchy sweater.

But a new generation is knocking on our door. Among the Babyboom generation, 0.5-1% identify as transgender and/or non-binary. Among Gen X, which I belong to, it’s 1-2% and among Millennials it’s 3-5%. But the Zoomers are here. The first half of Gen Z, including my kiddo, has reached adulthood. Among their generation, 5-10% identify as transgender and/or non-binary, a true explosion of gender diversity. The future is not just looking bright; it’s lit up in all the colors of the rainbow. I, for one, am sorely looking forward to a future in which I can finally and definitively throw away that itchy sweater and nobody can force the damn thing on me anymore.

#non-binary #trans #queer #gender #transgender #opinion #column

www.tijdschriftlover.nlTijdschrift LOVER - Gender is als een kriebeltruiTijdschrift LOVER - feministische vechtlust

Die Gruppe „trans* und Ich“ trifft sich am Montag, dem 17. Februar um 19 Uhr im Queeren Zentrum Mannheim!

Die Gruppe bietet Hilfe und Unterstützung für Eltern, Partner*innen, Angehörige und Zugehörige von trans*, inter und nicht binären Menschen.
„trans* und Ich“ versteht sich als Ergänzung der bereits vorhandenen Angebote für trans* Menschen in der Rhein Neckar Region.

Mehr Infos: qzm-rn.de/event/selbsthilfegru

#trans#nonbinary#inter

Important safety notice for trans and nonbinary people! Please boost for visibility (From the work queer thread this morning):

URGENT warning to trans and NB folx…

TL;DR do not request a gender marker change for any identifying documents

a member of my chorus went to renew their passport today, and not only were they denied the ability to change their gender marker, they were told by the passport authority that they had to confiscate it “until the legislation being written on them goes through.”

They also told him that the same policy goes for any identification documents.

“The agent told me that this should be expected for any governmental agency: Passports, driver licenses, name changes, adoptions, etc.. They also said that anyone with a gender marker of “X” will be detained at borders, and public intrastate transportation.”

[Edit: if you have your own experiences like this or to the contrary in the last few days or in the future please report here so I can update / boost]

Antwortete im Thread

Someone asked for men with titties, so here we go. My take of an OC trans dude, since I rarely see them in art, much less with big bouncy boobies.

Remember: not all trans people are alike, the exact same way that not all members of ANY group are alike. That's why it would be a 'group' and not 'exact clones'. Yes, even identical twins are not completely identical in every way, cool and personally unique though they are in other ways (like us all!)

No one is more important than anyone else. You're allowed to experiment. You're allowed to stay with what you feel comfortable. You need to notice harm to others and yourself. You need to care AND rest. We will build something better after capitalism.
I love you.

REUPLOAD! This time, with shading! That I thought was included the first two times! But wasn't! lgbtqia.space/@MxVerda/1138538

#OortArtCloud#art#BuyIntoArt
Antwortete im Thread

Someone asked for men with titties, so here we go. My take of an OC trans dude, since I rarely see them in art, much less with big bouncy boobies.

Remember: not all trans people are alike, the exact same way that not all members of ANY group are alike. That's why it would be a 'group' and not 'exact clones'. Yes, even identical twins are not completely identical in every way, cool and personally unique though they are in other ways (like us all!)

No one is more important than anyone else. You're allowed to experiment. You're allowed to stay with what you feel comfortable with. You need to notice harm to others and yourself. You need to care AND rest. We will build something better after capitalism.
I love you.

#OortArtCloud#art#BuyIntoArt

¡#Hola a todo el mundo! A modo de #introducción y de #presentación para quienes no me conozcan, quiero hablaros un poquito de mí.
Soy #admin de #Neuropaganes . Es la primera vez que administro una instancia, por lo que os pido paciencia.

Más datos sobre mí:

🧠#SoyAutista #ActuallyAutistic
🕯️Soy pagana y kemética. #paganismo #kemetismo
🏳️‍🌈Personita #nobinarie (#nonbinary), #bi, #grisexual
🖊️Me considero #escritora. He comenzado un blog para compartir información y mis experiencias en el paganismo.

My name is Zee, I'm a #AuDHD #Queer #Demigirl #Nonbinary #Transfem #Demi #Pan #t4t #Polyam entity and I’m very likely a mess most of the time.

When I am not losing my mind, #gaming and #tech are my deal also a huge #linux nerd. MMO's are my go to, and I'm a pretty huge #GuildWars2 and #FFXIV fan as well a massive #Charr lover

I’ve been trying to get into #blender as well, love 3D art and all the joys that come from working #3dmodeling stuff. Huge into #art and expressing creativity of all kinds, hoping to do more so myself 🎨

Very much a #furry likely a #wyvern or something although still working and exploring that and hoping to find more furry friends here. #kinky and pretty lewd at times 😅

​Feel free to follow me? if I seem cool or something lol or dont idk. Oh and boost are greatly appreciated. :neocat_floof_happy:

#Introduction:

Hello. I am Bishop Greer Godsey. I am an Old #Catholic NOT Roman Catholic bishop. I am #nonbinary, #pansexual, and #polyamorous.

I have seen 45 rotations around Sol. Despite suffering from major #depressive #disorder, generalized #anxiety disorder, and #CPTSD I still manage to hold out hope for a better tomorrow.

I am on a major #weight #loss journey. As a #diabetic with #arthritis in my spine and congestive #heart #failure, I started making huge changes to my life. I started a once-a-week injectable for my diabetes. In a little over a year, I lost 110 lbs (459-349). My arthritis is not causing as much pain, but there are days.

I am the proud parent to a #transgender daughter who is an #activist and SJ Warrior. (I taught her everything I know. The rest she got from her mom!) Together our family stands up for the rights of all people. We fight for the rights of the #LGBTQIA community, people of color, and women.

Bonsoir, j'aimerais me présenter brièvement. Permettez-moi de le faire en anglais, car mon français, ce n'est plus ce qu'il était.

👤 I am Simon (pronouns: they/them in English, iel/lea/ellui en français, no pronouns in German and other languages)

🏳️‍🌈 I am #nonbinary (not keen about the term 'enby') and #bisexual (or #biplus if you prefer).

🇪🇺 I live in Europe and I am #multilingual.

👶 I am a toddler parent and a part-time worker.

😱 I have been diagnosed with #anxiety disorder, but try to live as much as I can.

🤫 I am an #introvert, but I can be talkative when I feel at ease.

Looking forward to getting in touch with you! Au plaisir de prendre contact avec vous tous!

:boost_ok: MUTUAL AID POST 230/500 :boost_ok:

I'm Sky, an #indigenous #nonbinary #transfem living in rural #Virginia

my partners, our son, and I need help

my partners are #disabled and entirely unable to work

I have #autism and #adhd (as well as #ptsd from being violently hate-crimed) but I still manage to hold a full-time job, but it doesn't pay enough

my water bill is almost three months late, I need $300 for it

I also need $100 for rent (I have the $500 due Sunday, but I still owe $100 for November)

I'll also need some additional money for food, as they cut back our food stamps

my goal is $500

please, if you can spare anything to send our way, we'd be so grateful

also, boost for visibility (thanks!) :boostRequest:

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